Kirby & Paula Kirkpatrick

Intro

At EverAfter℠, we coach couples to move from “just okay” to deeply connected. With over 30 years of marriage and decades of experience in leadership and coaching, we bring both real-life perspective and practical tools to help couples build trust, strengthen intimacy, and communicate with confidence. Our style is authentic, humorous, and hope-filled — because marriage isn’t meant to just survive, it’s meant to thrive.

What is your specialization and style of coaching?

We specialize in helping couples rediscover intimacy and trust through practical communication tools, mindset shifts, and real-life application. Our style is relational, interactive, and hope-filled. We balance humor with honesty, and we aren’t afraid to address the unspoken challenges that quietly erode relationships. Couples can expect a coaching experience that is both fun and transformative.

What types of clients do you enjoy working with?

We love working with couples who find themselves saying, “Our marriage is fine, but it could be so much more.” These are often busy professionals or parents who have let the urgent crowd out the important, and they’re ready to invest in their relationship again. We enjoy working with couples who want practical strategies, accountability, and encouragement to build a marriage marked by trust, intimacy, laughter, and partnership.

What types of clients get the most value working with you?

We work best with couples who want more than “just fine” and are ready to intentionally invest in their relationship. The clients who see the greatest impact are those who: Want practical, actionable tools to communicate better and resolve conflict. Feel stuck in “roommate mode” and want to reconnect as true teammates. Value having both a male and female perspective in their coaching. Are open to honesty, humor, and real-life application.

What’s inspiring you lately?

We’re inspired by seeing couples shift from “roommates” to true teammates. Watching partners open up to one another, share laughter again, and rediscover why they fell in love in the first place keeps us energized. Lately, we’ve been especially encouraged by how simple, intentional changes in communication — like listening differently or making time for fun together — can reignite connection and bring fresh hope to a relationship.

Anything else you want to include in your profile?

Yes — one of our greatest strengths is that we coach as a couple, together. That means clients benefit from both male and female perspectives in every session, something many find refreshing and balanced. At the core, we believe marriage is worth fighting for — and that when couples invest in each other, the ripple effects extend to their families, workplaces, and communities.